I am not my hair.

[hair & happy] So I've been having this struggle with beauty lately. I've done a few things about it. I wrote about Numbers. I've been attempting to attempt the whole eating-healthy-working-out-not-overdoing-it thing ((again)). So far so good with that. But I'm still struggling. I also read this article on beauty and the most powerful decision [...]

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135-40-125-130 — or on numbers

[numbers & happy] real talk: I've attempted to write this post quite a few times. I actually thought I had started it a few times but when I went to my drafts folder, all that there was was the title and blank space. Thinking about it vaguely, it's been attempted 5 times over the past [...]

let’s not mention everything i dabble in — or woe is me, just this once.

I’ve wanted to write about why I think I may just end up an old spinster. About how I get asked why I’m single and don’t provide an answer even though I have a hunch. About how people, guys, call me beautiful. About how I’m not even sure what that means exactly, how I don’t [...]

“can’t blame a guy for trying” — or a windy city welcome

“can’t blame a guy for trying, a lady as beautiful as you.” Sweet. Very humbling. Never expected. But really, how can you tell when a line is just a line leading to an action or when it’s something more, truthful, felt, meant? Context clues, body language, “something” told me it was just a line. Maybe [...]

“you look better with the lights off” — or the naked truth

"I hope you don't take this the wrong way. Girl you look better with the lights off." Sorry Mr. Breezy & New Boyz, I think most would take it the wrong way. kindasortalike when you say "no offense buuut...," the statement tends to indeed bring offense, despite your polite preface. But let's purposefully overlook the [...]